Feel like Giving up? – DO NOT DO IT!

Hi everyone,

The only thing in life that can stop you from attaining success is your perspective, what and how you define success, your approach towards life and your health!

Remember these three words, PERSPECTIVE, APPROACH and HEALTH … this is all. 

Persepective is important. There is always more than one way of looking at one thing. You can pretty much always make a situation positive, hence, failure is always defined as an opportunity for growth. You should be able to view your situation from both your viewpoint and from the exterior.

Only way you gain perspective is by exploring, reading, sharing, and interacting… in simple words you must make your life a journey of finding opportunities to learn. Mindset is crucial to your life long learning.

You cannot be stuck on little things that limit you from gaining success or achieving your goals. A limiting thought would be constantly worrying about being stagnat in your career… this is a sign where you need to learn a new skill and apply it to find a new opportunity. Another limiting thought would be constantly worrying about the past, future, present… no stop! Work now and the future will form itself! If you don’t put in work now, you miss the shot for tomorrow.

Mindset is the key of how you approach life. You can see things very negatively, nag, worry and constantly complain or you can find a solution! I am telling you to find a solution! You live in a time of opportunity! The internet is full of informaiton. Learn something that will make your future.

Now all of it fails when you are reluctant towards your health! Please take care of yourself. Run, eat healthy and stay positive. You won’t be able to earn if you are not healthy. The biggest wealth in life is health. This is the best gift you can give to yourself and family members.

Stay motivated! 


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  1. Yernasia Quorelios

    ♡ I really appreciate the sentiment here, yet, after over half a century I have come to a simple conclusion, if I DON’T LIKE IT!!! 😝 I “Give Up”; then I Focus on What I Do Like 😀 and I NEVER!!! “Give Up” On What I Do Like


    1. dlaofficial

      Hi Yernaisa, I really appreciate you reading and providing feedback. I agree with you completely. However, everyone’s situation is subjective.

      For example, you may really dislike doing a certain job, but you won’t get to the next level if you quit right now OR perse, you need to earn an education, but you also need to save money and the only way to get to that path is by continuing a job that pays you enough to get to a goal that is more desirable.

      Some people give up without putting in the hard work to get to what they like doing. Often times it’s because they confuse consumption vs. investments. Some people don’t have the luxury to pick and choose what they do like and what they don’t. To get to somewhere you do like, often times you have to continue on things, or positionsthat become stagnant at a personal level. I am saying for those people to not give up.

      I have done a job for 5 years, I hated it but it earned me some good cash to save up for some properties. That’s why I think everything requires a plan. People cannot just find something difficult and “don’t like” and quit. If it’s hard and you don’t like it but there you foresee future gains… by all means, stick to your plan.

      But I agree on what you meant. Every purpose should lead to a place of future gains, hence, what you like doing.

      Thank you,

      Dla 🙂

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      1. Yernasia Quorelios

        ♡ My pleasure; money was an issue for me because of my parents…now I AM financially advising them with a philosophy of money is moot, it doesn’t really matter; money is the most Effective Distraction to LOVE EveryOne, Please Pay Attention 🤑


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      2. dlaofficial

        Yes, for sure money doesn’t matter. It shouldn’t be the end goal. The end goal should give you the pleasure in what you are doing. That is more satisfying.

        Money does matter in cases to get to your goals though. Some people, actually don’t focus on earning a financial freedom hence, why other aspects of their lives suffer and fail. Even mindset suffers if you cannot pay your Bill’s. So not really true that money doesn’t matter, it does but the end goal for a fulfilling life should be something more substantial than money.

        Thanks for your thoughts Yernasia.


      3. Yernasia Quorelios

        ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

        ◇ I Used to be OCD (Occupational Compulsive Disorder) about money too like Any Other Addiction ALL; then I was homeless and I didn’t die, I lived…it’s funny really how Money creates Financial Zombies Gnawing Away at Their Own Brains with the Stress of Money EveryOne; instead of The Pure Childlike Enjoyment of what Free Pleasures ARE To Be had…to claim “I have no choice about where I live and how I live.” ~ EveryOne Who Is Miserable, is a Cop Out; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that Our Children Don’t Care About Money, Our Kids Do Care About Parental Attention that is Robbed by Anxious Parental Focus on Money

        ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇



  2. Yernasia Quorelios

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇

    ◇ I Switched Back to The Fluid, Flexible Planning of The Purity of My Childlike State from The Rigid, InFlexible Planning that My Parents Conditioned Me with because They Knew No Better; still asleep I Guess…at least My Dad is; on the Other Hand My Marvellous Mom Bought a new home recently exactly where SHE!!! wanted and at a Price SHE!!! could afford…after I gifted HER!!! money for HER!!! Intention to Purchase Property and SHE!!! said “I’ve changed my mind; I am gonna upgrade my Mercedes.” and I replied “Are you fucking financially foolish 🤔 ? Buy your new home first then upgrade your Mercedes.” le sigh, I Guess it’s The Curse of Our Children to Have To Parent Parents 😆😅😄😃😂😁😀😉😊

    ◇ – Diamond Hard – ◇



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